because every mom could use more support
Why moms?
Moms are the center and we must hold.
Whether we actually can, or not.
Moms are the culture keepers.
Moms are the childhood creators.
Moms are everything.
Even when we have nothing.
Moms are mythologized, pathologized, patronized, judged, ignored, blamed and blamed and blamed... anything except supported.
We are mothering at the end of the world and at the beginning of a new one. This time is fraught and frightening, yes - but this is the only childhood that our kids will have. This is the only life that you will have.
Why moms? Because moms are in a unique position to break destructive cycles simply by attending to their own healing. When moms embrace their own humanity it becomes that much harder for the world to dehumanize their children, their family, their community.
Moms are the center and we must hold. WE DO NOT HAVE TO DO THIS ALONE. Motherhood does not have to hurt like this. It does not have to feel so isolating, so overwhelming, so terribly frightening, so impossible.
You, mama, are not a giving machine. You are a human being with needs, wants, dreams, and desires. You deserve to live with the happiest, healthiest, most healed version of yourself. So does your family.
That's why.
Why Whole Human Mama?
Because you’ve been doing this without the support you need for too long already.
Because you have never ever been alone.
There are so many moms who seem to have it all together - and who are doing a great job - who could use more support.
ALL MOMS NEED SUPPORT
We’re here to give you a place to scream, to laugh, to ask, to lean, to giggle, to share, to learn, to be inspired…
A PLACE TO STOP AND REST.
From Pampers to perimenopause, we have your back.
Pull up a Chair and Sip With Us
We believe in filling your cup…and in drinking deeply of your own life.
You’re Invited
Our community is more than a chat room - it’s a series of invitations. Come and join us for co-working, for playdates, for workshops, or for wind downs. You are always invited and never pressured. Our pricing is Pay What You Will.
Get Permission
Through our group chats and regular posts you’ll receive the permission you didn’t know you needed - to stop or to slow down, to rest, to say no, to choose differently, to focus on yourself.
Our offerings are consistently tailored to our group. Simply ask for what you need - a different time, a new topic, and we get to work. You can also get support via DM for more privacy.
Get Personalized Support
Yes, the world is a total fucking mess. There’s no other way to say it. And we cannot fight from a place of despair, we cannot parent well from a place of burnout. We can’t keep going like this! Come get some joy, some happiness, and learn the discipline of hope.
Embrace Joy
This is your invitation to join whole human Mama
Hi, I’m Graeme
I’m a maternal mental health advocate, speaker, and coach who helps moms reconnect with their whole human selves. I’ve supported more than 3,000 moms as they placed their names at the top of their priority list (minus the guilt or shame).
I created Whole Human Mama to broaden and deepen the level of support available to moms because I know that we need so much more than what we’ve been offered.
Described as radical, honest, and uplifting, my work is inspired by my own experiences with recovering from a traumatic birth and battling postpartum depression.
I offer education, support, and accountability to ensure that you create meaningful and lasting change in your life. In our work together, we'll break down how these systems are impacting you on a personal level.
Don’t want to join in - but still need support?
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Our most popular and impactful workshops are available for purchase with no need to join anything. Browse through the collection, select the support you need and get just that!
A Quick Note From Our Founder:
In this age of AI ridiculousness I feel the need to totally transparent and upfront with you. I don’t use AI. AT ALL. There are not bots in our community, our customer service is totally human, all em dashes are used because I love them — possibly too much — and all spelling and grammar mistakes are my own.
Community is essentially human.
Our community is created to help you reconnect with your own humanity and to support you along your motherhood journey. There’s no way to automate that.